David Wolfe's

Okay, my husband and I have really been going through a rough time. We are having issues in terms of his anger and holding a grudge against me that I did 9 years ago. I know wrong is wrong, but my wrong that he is so mad with me about is that during my first pregnancy with our child, I was extremely mean to him. I didn’t want to be bothered, I was angry about having to quit school and then later in order to get back in, I had to cough up the money myself…nevertheless, this made me angry with him (we were not married, I was 19 and very immature..needless to say, I was walking around town with the evidence of our wrongdoing in my stomach with no one questioning him..instead it was me), Anyway, I apologized and told him that I was very angry at that time and that the behavior was not me…it was angry part of me that was displayed. We got married had more kids and have been fine. Especially within the past year! In July he came home late one night saying how he was still so upset about how I treated him and acted towards him, that he cannot believe that he allowed himself to stay. So he has been distant with me the past 2 months, angry at everything I say or do, mean, etc…you name it, he has treated me that way. I have been praying and talking to God about me and about my husbands anger and trying to strengthen my relationship with God. I had a dream two nights ago that my husband shot me. I was so afraid and it was like I could feel it happening in the dream(I forgot to say just before I got in bed, he got my arm and held it, he closed his eyes and was just touching me.) I was so scared all day yesterday and very much so on edge. This morning, I got up and after I prayed and talked to God myself, I asked my husband to pray with me. I took his hand in mine and I said "God, you are not a God of fear, you have not given us a spirit of fear but the spirit of love instead, please help me to walk in faith as I trust you in all that I do. Lord I confess that I am afraid and I ask that you remove that spirit of being afriad. God please rest rule and abide in our hearts. Bless our family and place your armor of protection around us as we travel everyday, Amen." Now my husband is ANGRY….he told me this afternoon, 8 hours after the prayer that he feels like I violated him and that this bothered him. I didn’t say anything at all that it was about him…I was praying for my own fear. Before I prayed he asked me "why do you want to pray", I said "its not a big deal really". Nevertheless, he is ANGRY HOT MAD at me and says that I used him and prayed about him without saying anything. I didn’t pray about him though…nothing was said that was negative about him. In your opinion, do you think I should not have prayed with him? Was I wrong? If I was wrong, what should I say to him?He told me not to ever pray for him, with him, about him again, I said okay. What do you think?

"He told me not to ever pray for him, with him, about him again, I said okay. What do you think?". Now, log off and pray FOR him, and about HIM. Who else will you pray for? Your friends? Who will pray for your enemies (no, im not suggesting that your husband is your enemy). Pray for those who need it, not for those who you want to. Your husband needs your prayer. Also, when you pray, ASK God, never TELL God. We are God’s children, we ASK, not command/TELL God to give us something. If your husband choose to be angry with you after 9 years about something this stupid, ASK God to show your husband that what your husband is doing is hurting you. ASK God to show you why all of a sudden, your husband is mad at you after all these years. ASK God to help you understand and comprehend the situation. ASK God that he will guide your husband in the right path. You ASK, you RECIEVE! And if you do not recieve, be glad, because it has a purpose. But Jesus said, if you have faith as little as a mustard seed, you can move mountains! You need to have faith that God will help you no matter what. You need to be faithful that if God does not give you what you want, its for your own sake.

Think about your pet (if you have one). My Dog cries for the chicken curry my parents make. But, i, her owner, don’t give her any chicken curry. Why? because the onion is posinious for Dogs. But my Dog never understand this! My Dog will rather eat the chicken than listen to my command. It doesn’t the PATIENCE or the WISDOM to think about the consenquences of eating that food. But I know the consequences! It’s fatal. If i have so much love, care and fear for a Dog i got with the money i earned in less than a month, how much more love do you think God has for us? Everything God does had/has a purpose. Pray that you are given the WISDOM to understand and realize this. Good luck. Keep us updated.